Grimes is taking legal action against her ex Elon Musk over the custody of their children. The “Crystal Ball” singer, who shares son X Æ A-12 (3), daughter Exa Dark Sideræl (20 months), and son Techno Mechanicus with the Tesla CEO, has filed a petition to establish parental rights, according to court records obtained by NBC News on Oct. 3.
Elon, who split from Grimes in March 2022 after four years of dating, has yet to formally respond to the filing. E! News has reached out to both Elon and Grimes’ representatives for comment but has not received a response.
This legal move comes nearly a month after the artist, born Claire Boucher, publicly confirmed that she and the tech mogul privately welcomed their youngest son, nicknamed Tau.
Prior to this revelation, Grimes addressed executive Shivon Zilis, with whom Elon shares 19-month-old twins, in a since-deleted post on X (formerly known as Twitter) on Sept. 7. She wrote, “Tell Shivon to unblock me and tell Elon to let me see my son or plz respond to my lawyer.”
Recently, the “Genesis” artist noted that she and Shivon have resolved their differences. “Hey, I would prefer to not breathe any more life into this current press cycle but I want to de-escalate the narrative atm,” Grimes wrote on X on Sept. 10. “I spoke with Shivon at length finally, which was long overdue. This wasn’t her fault, please don’t be angry at her! We respect each other a lot and we’re excited to become friends and have the kids grow up together.”
She added, “Women are so often pitted against each other. Speaking with Shivon, it’s very evident she’s an amazing human and we both just want what’s best for our kids.”
Grimes also reflected on her and Elon’s latest addition, noting that she wishes she could show “how cute little Techno is,” but explained her priority is keeping her children “out of the public eye” at this time.
Shortly after Grimes shared her message, Shivon, 37, confirmed that all was well. “At the end of the day it all ended up for the best!” she responded on X. “Thank you for taking the time to really connect and understand each other. So glad we had such a wonderful talk, was insanely overdue. You’re a total badass and I respect you very much as well. I can’t wait for kiddo play date and congrats on baby Tau as well!”
Before welcoming kids with Grimes and Shivon, the Tesla CEO founder, 52, previously welcomed six children with ex-wife Justine Musk.
The ongoing custody dispute highlights the complexities of co-parenting in high-profile relationships. Grimes’ legal petition seeks to establish formal parental rights, likely aiming to ensure a structured and fair arrangement for their children’s upbringing. The public nature of their relationship and family dynamics has often drawn media attention, adding another layer of scrutiny to their personal lives.
Grimes’ candidness about her struggles and efforts to reconcile with Shivon Zilis underscores a commitment to a harmonious co-parenting environment. Her recent statements on social media reveal a desire to protect her children’s privacy while navigating the challenges of being a public figure.
Meanwhile, Elon Musk, known for his ventures in technology and space exploration, faces the personal challenge of balancing his professional endeavors with his responsibilities as a father. His previous experiences with co-parenting his other children with Justine Musk may provide some context for navigating the current situation with Grimes.
As this legal matter unfolds, it serves as a reminder of the importance of clear communication and cooperation in co-parenting, particularly in the public eye. The resolution of their custody arrangement will likely impact their children’s well-being and set a precedent for future interactions.
The evolving dynamics between Grimes, Elon Musk, and Shivon Zilis also reflect broader societal conversations about family, privacy, and the roles of parents in the digital age. Their journey, marked by moments of public discourse and private reconciliation, continues to capture public interest and media attention.
